Q. someone asked me out on a first date why I have not ever married. I have had personal issues which have stood in the way. that is a large part of the reason why. I have never had anyone ask me that. but when she did I was honest and I told her. the truth is I have had problems and still do. but I am functional, I am just a bit behind socially for my age. but people like myself need someone too. what am I s...